| Tired of Negativity! |
| I am so tired of negativity and it especially got right under my skin today. So after thinking about it and talking it over with one of my most positive friends, Josh, I had a brainwave and thusly have made a decision. Every time I hear, think or say anything negative, I will counterbalance it with two positive things. It'll take a while for it to become a proper habit but so long as I try to do it when things are really getting me down, it'll make a big difference. And if I still don't feel positive or even neutral, I'll just keep naming more! Sure its not a fool-proof plan but it'll aid in gaining emotional fitness and I know that given the choice I'd rather be positive than negative. :) |
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Awsome lucy! and remember the greatest feeling in the world is being gratefull =D one more step to emotional 'finesse' and josh knows when to use it rofl XD
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Every time I hear, think or say anything negative, I will counterbalance it with two positive things.
Oh, I LOVE that idea! It's tit-for-tat with the mind! Like when your horse steps toward you one step, and you back him up two... thank you for sharing that.
--wyldehorse63 on Savvy Club Forum
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My name is Lucy Middleton, I'm 17 years old and from the United Kingdom.
I started Parelli in January 2008 and it has been an incredible journey so far.
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Awsome lucy! and remember the greatest feeling in the world is being gratefull =D one more step to emotional 'finesse' and josh knows when to use it rofl XD