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Today was my first go playing friendly game on the move with Lily and it went pretty well. First time I started it I spooked her but after that she was a bit sticky-footed but she was blinking after a while and responsive to where I was asking her to go. My arms were killing me afterwards. So she didn't associate her being caught with the scary friendly game on the move I hung out with her before and after whilst she grazed.
Arran said on Wednesday that I was getting too good at the catching game with her so now I've got to be a bit clumsy for her to be braver. It makes sense because if she cuts herself whilst I'm away, no one would be able to catch her to clean her up. So bearing that in mind I was a little bit laid back and ignoring her when she pulls her 'but I can't possibly do that!' face rather than going gently gently because she should be fine with being caught now.
She followed me around after I turned her out so I obviously didn't offend her too much! Sometimes I think the tough love, confident approach does work with the more introverted types because if I acted as unconfident as her I wouldn't be a very good leader. Its just knowing when to be gentle and slow or confident and having a 'you'll be fine!!' attitude in situations. I've got a 50/50 chance of getting it right! |
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My name is Lucy Middleton, I'm 17 years old and from the United Kingdom.
I started Parelli in January 2008 and it has been an incredible journey so far.
Pre-Parelli I did the best with what I knew but now I know better; I want to do better!
This is my blog to document my progress as a natural horseman.
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I am owned by this gorgeous piebald cob mare, Lily. She's an interesting character, fun to play with and is a great teacher.
There's more about her on her own page.
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It's not about disposable horses; it's about relationships for life.
It's not about quick fixes and artificial aids, it's about savvy; true understanding and expertise.
It's not about winning and others losing; It's about win-win: you and the horse need to feel good.
It's not about me me me; It's about changing the world for horses, becoming a person of knowledge and influence, and sharing what you know.
It's not about fear and doubt; It's about unconditional love and trust.
Love for the empowerment of others and trust that you'll never ask the horse to do something that would hurt or diminish his dignity.
Reveal your horse. Discover your potential. Live your dream.
-Parelli
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